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abandonedmany
10-10-2005, 12:57 PM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx

zachzech
10-10-2005, 03:56 PM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx

you dont....love takes time iha....true love rarely happens like how they do in novels....life is not a jude deveraux character....love can be a nicholas sparks` but then again, in real life, you just have to get to know the person first...and before you get to know the person, pray for him or her first....the best and true love is the one that comes from above. and most of all, love is a lot of emotions but most of the times, love is not the feeling but the knowing that it is LOVE.

SuperGlow
10-10-2005, 04:04 PM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx


hmmm....NO YOU CAN'T ...YOUR BEST FRIEND IS THE TIME...maybe there is an attraction....and that would lead to a TRUE LOVE (but not all)....

MHTS
10-10-2005, 06:02 PM
There are couple of factors to consider here:

First, there is this what we call "Love at first sight." However, this does not guarantee you of a forever love or the real love. Infatuations could be deceiving, but they give us unexplainable feelings at first.

Second, there is this what we call "Magic". This is a God-made love that was uniquely designed for both of you. This magic does not pop up at first day, although there are indications that it is there. Time, as what SuperGlow mentioned, will let you learn from it more.

Third, there is this what I call "Respect". This respect covers a lot of its entirety. This must be seen from the very start. If a person don't know how to show the 'deeper' respect for you, then how can this person show you a 'shallow' respect to you. It's complicated, but Respect will tell you if this guy is worth it, worth living for (or even dying for).

Fourth, there is this what we call "Promise". Remember, "Promises of men are made to be broken." We are humans, but "actions speak louder than words." Don't have them promise you, have them 'do it'. Just do it (Nike).

Fifth and lastly, there is this what I call "the First Kiss." From the Hitch movie, it says: "Eight out of ten girls decide what to do from the First Kiss." Remember this is not acquired with force. There will come a time, where you will want to be kiss the first time, and the guy should know when.

Knowing each other more is the best bet.... As SuperGlow says; TIME will lead your way...

SuperGlow
10-10-2005, 06:13 PM
^

Thanks for the detailed explanation...hihihihihihi...you're good apo lakay MHTS....

touchstone
10-11-2005, 03:15 AM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx

My point to this, although i am no yet married. Love develops gradually as you get to know the other person. I am 25 and had relationships back 2 years ago. Infatuation and love is a different thing. When 'love ' develops suddenly or within a few dates, it is almost always infatuation. I think real love is a developing relationship, not an abrupt awakening. Second, true love is outgoing concern. It is not necessarily, wholly outgoing, devoid of a normal and right feeling of desire. If you think this person you're supposedly in love with its perfect, you DONT KNOW ENOUGH about the person to marry him or her. Prayer I think is the best we could do or i must do. God will give us a partner that comes from HIM only.

daguerrson
10-11-2005, 05:17 AM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx

You can't tell at first meeting. People who say they can are in for big trouble. It takes time, a lot of mutual understanding, a lot of patience with each other, a lot of mutual respect, and a lot of give and take for true love to develop and blossom. And let us not forget the physical aspect - the physical attraction that you feel toward each other everytime is a strong bond to keep you tied to each other.

touchstone
10-11-2005, 06:29 AM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx

And let us not forget the physical aspect - the physical attraction that you feel toward each other everytime is a strong bond to keep you tied to each other.

Physically attractive but not necessarily sensually arousing. True love does not produce sex arousal at sight.

juVans
10-14-2005, 02:49 AM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx


Hard to tell because I am BLIND.

:roll: :roll: :roll:

linda
10-14-2005, 02:55 AM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx


Hard to tell because I am BLIND

:roll: :roll: :roll:

Sori to hear that Juvans..isu met la dimo ipakita ta rupam dita avatar mo hihihi :lol: :lol: :lol:

touchstone
10-14-2005, 06:15 AM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx


Hard to tell because I am BLIND

:roll: :roll: :roll:

Sori to hear that Juvans..isu met la dimo ipakita ta rupam dita avatar mo hihihi :lol: :lol: :lol:

maysa kan juvans..hehehe

daguerrson
10-14-2005, 02:00 PM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx


Hard to tell because I am BLIND

:roll: :roll: :roll:

Sori to hear that Juvans..isu met la dimo ipakita ta rupam dita avatar mo hihihi :lol: :lol: :lol:

Ha ha ha ha :!: Naisahan ka ni Linda, juVans :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

SuperGlow
10-14-2005, 03:48 PM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx


Hard to tell because I am BLIND.

:roll: :roll: :roll:


Linda is right JuVans...you are LITERALLY BLIND...HIHIHIHIHIHI :lol: :lol: 8) 8)

linda
10-14-2005, 07:03 PM
Even in first meeting, how do you know or feel if the guy is your true love?

tnx


Hard to tell because I am BLIND.

:roll: :roll: :roll:


Linda is right JuVans...you are LITERALLY BLIND...HIHIHIHIHIHI :lol: :lol: 8) 8)

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: agpayso met mamin ano nga sukatan na ta avatar nan awan rupa na hihihi.....kidding ..baka agbartek man ni Juvans sen

touchstone
11-08-2005, 01:19 PM
NO one knows. YOU CAN'T MAKE LOVE HAPPEN ; it just DOES!

For those who still single and no commitment:
"Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart"
PRAY!

sOnYa
12-07-2005, 07:13 AM
...it just happens...

SuperGlow
12-07-2005, 04:32 PM
If you can ACCEPT all his mistakes

daguerrson
12-07-2005, 06:17 PM
If you can ACCEPT all his mistakes


Dayta ngarud ti gapuna nga kunaenda nga bulsek ni ayat ta ni agayat ket dina makita ti biddut ni ay-ayatenna.

SuperGlow
12-07-2005, 09:19 PM
If you can ACCEPT all his mistakes


Dayta ngarud ti gapuna nga kunaenda nga bulsek ni ayat ta ni agayat ket dina makita ti biddut ni ay-ayatenna.

Ayna nagrigat met baliksenen Cousin...tongue twister

touchstone
12-08-2005, 02:03 AM
If you can ACCEPT all his mistakes

PLUS NOT DWELLING ON THE PAST